Forgiveness: Are we Also to Forget?

Forgiving is so important for our relation with God:\\"And forgive us as we forgive other...\\" And it is in this relation with God that we find peace and spiritual rebirth , complete recovery. These are not words, they are facts , for someone who really feels deep in themselves the relation with God.They not only forgive and forget but they also suffer/weep for those who cannot bond again in the same friendship , who go around their ego in their too much efforts of forgiving and forgetting. I know a situation when one had to forgive the killer of their brother .He was a priest ,also tortured in the Communist Romanian prisons .And he went to his brother\'s killer and told him.:You have killed my brother. You are my brother.\\"