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JustinMiller wrote:
Money might seem tacky, but it works. It really depends on what you're giving the gift for. A name-day? Anniversary? If it's a ministerial function, such as a baptism, house/car/whatever blessing, marriage, usually you give the priest money in a discreet envelope. That's how we roll. Also, for house blessings, we always try to have some coffee and pie (or some kind of light dessert dish that complements the java) available. So I guess it's really a matter of occasion.
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Please separate real gifts from offerings for services.
Many jurisdictions do not allow their priest to accept offerings for services. And many parishes provide a car and parish gas card, or a car allowance plus gas for the car that is used for parish business.
In Greek parishes, at least, your weekly offering pays the priest\'s gas and cellphone. If your parish doesn\'t do this, it should. These are bills the parish should be paying on a regular basis, and they should not come out of the priest\'s salary. Our parish wouldn\'t think of not covering these business expenses the same way we cover paper for the copier.
Gifts are another matter entirely, and a lot more fun to think about!
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I think a nice gift for a priest (in this case me :) ) might be some liturgical books for my personal library especially for younger/newer priests who haven\'t collected many volumes yet. I can provide a list :)
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Memo to Fr. Athanasios\'s first parish: Please look at the Orthodox Circle forums before his nameday...
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I would appreciate a list, Fr A. It would be a helpful thing to know what a priest might be looking for.
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ReaderJohn wrote:
free golf
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if cash makes you or the priest uncomfortable, try a gift certificate instead. You can get them for almost any kind of store these days.
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The gifts mentioned seem, mostly, to be gifts for \"a priest.\"
I might point out that one gift, a piece of artwork, was for a priest specifically interested in the Byzantine empire.
If the question is, \"How do you give an appropriate gift for a layperson?\", the right answer is probably, \"I don\'t know; what is this person like? What are that person\'s interests and responsibilities?\" And then give a gift, not for \"a priest\" or \"a layperson,\" but for the specific person.
Just a thought...
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Jonathan has made a very real point. I know a priest who would LOVE opera tickets for a weeknight, and a number of priests who couldn\'t think of anything more boring.
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If you practice any handicrafts, give him something handmade.
My parish has been hosting a Russian priest and his family for the past 9 months; he finally got an assignment and will be leaving us this week. As a going-away gift, my husband and I gave him and his matushka a Civil War reproduction quilt I made that they had admired. They loved it.
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