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actually this is not a laughing matter at all! my friends spouce who is orthodox as well mentaly abuses her knowing that she is very faithful and revenge is not an option. it is a very bad situation and i thought maybe someone can come up with some good advise bexause in my eyes, after all that he has been doing, revenge is the only answer but ofcourse i cannot an will not recommend that! so im asking you all if you have any better ideas. maybe as to how to aproach a person like tha and make him understand how wrong he is?! or something! i just dont know.
I'd suggest that regardless of whatever your friend does she forgive him and not take any of it to heart but rather have pity on him. After all, he is the one in such a sad state that he'd treat his own wife so poorly. What does this say about him, really?
Ideally, it would be good to resolve the conflict and heal the wounds through Pastoral counseling but that may or may not be possible and with any wound it may leave a scar. Ultimately, it's up to the two of them and is a very huge undertaking which will require a lot of work and patience.
Beyond that, she could try the gut punch, You know the old saying, \"When in doubt knock the sucka out...\". :p